Mind in the universe

Besides the useless conventional, minor, minute and logic-less, clueless, endless trivial arguments of the events and happening of life, the depth of knowing, understanding, appreciating, apprehending the self and the life as such “in love” is remarkable. If someone is gettingto know the self through the intricacies of love, he or she gets to know the life and the meanings of life (most of it) as such. Subjectively yes, if the self is taken as a primary concern and as an important object, it feels to be in acute pain every second, but what is pain? Just a feel?  But the objectivity is reduced to ashes; the subjectivity is so broad covering the entire universe inside a small mind